May 29th, 2008 Posted in Family Forms, Space and Time | No Comments »
Every road leads, if you continue on far enough, to anomaly, to contradiction, mystery. A satisfaction of sorts at the start of a journey, to know where you are going for a while.
I can hardly believe that at the beginning, in my initial project, I touched the end. Like the tyro swimmer jumping into the deep end of the pool, one soon gets the idea. It is clear and simple yet complex. A trick to learn, a great seriousness to appreciate, and finally a joke of which the comedian is the butt.
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My first project in graduate school was astonishingly demanding and it presumed a wide understanding of the sociological enterprise which I did not have at the time and which I did not appreciate that I lacked. In the event I stumbled upon a gold bearing lode with more than enough material questions for the work of several lives but my digger’s intuition failed me and though I marked the place I wandered off and never came back.
This project might have the quality of unpalatable medicine for some of you. Medicine in the sense of a disagreeable experience that promises a positive result to follow. The promise of heaven in the middle of a trying life. The combination of mate selection and residential propinquity can have a dry and dreary quality because it is unsophisticated, innocent and not especially significant. But if you can bear up to the discomfort you will find unexpected and, hopefully, salutary consequences. Let us see.
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Propositional Inventory was in, and my professor, Rick H., had determined to construct one for Family Studies. It seemed to follow from his annual reviews of the literature. The idea: list all the propositions stated and possibly proved in all the articles and research reports from the beginning of the 20th century. Then track the associations among these propositions into nets, and finally reveal the interconnected theories at the most abstract level. Like standing Euclid on his head. Instead of enumerating the limited number of presumably true rules and logically deriving the propositions that closely reflect geometric experience, we start with the triangle, the square and the circle or, even further into the concrete, we start with the fir tree, the plot of ground for a garden and the ball, and work our way back to the infinitely extended straight line and the mystical pi.
I was not completely committed. The jump from the bunches of research observations, no matter how precise or statistical, to the unifying and governing abstract concepts seemed to me to be a leap of blind faith, like a trapeze artist, presuming a catcher floating somewhere in a thick fog ahead, letting go the bar and tumbling into his act. Look out below!
Further, how many apples hit philosophers on their conventional and unresponsive heads before Newton? Surely each disciplined observer makes the connections between concept and research act for himself as best he is able. It is his obligation to push the implications of his research results. All the reviewer can do is hope to be hit by the apple on the bounce and catch any missed implication.
A vast mining enterprise, tunneling into the mountain of articles, concepts and supposed facts again and again, each article, concept and fact a new entrance. No guarantee that we would have the moment of originality required to see the equivalent, in sociology, of Newton’s discovery of the unity, through gravity, between the motions of the falling apple and of the heavenly bodies.
Also the unresolved confusion between the desire for an abstract, objective and generalized understanding of the social field, the ability to perform an unbiased analysis, and the desire for practical results for ideologically defined problems. To reduce divorce rates, while perhaps an admirable goal in itself, is not the same as understanding divorce as part of the existing marriage system. Conceptually they go in different directions. For the apple grower the apple falling from the tree is another question to which gravity might not provide the answer. A large portion of the family research had this ideological quality. The life of the miner was going to be complicated by the mix of gold and pyrite and the need to distinguish between them but without a sure identifying test. There were mixed minerals in the mountain and confusion for the digger. The presumption of conceptual uniformity from one research project to another is itself dubious. There is the danger that an inventory might be dragging the digger’s mule and the digger himself where they might not want to go. But it was an interesting challenge so I buckled down
The project: To show by example how the propositional inventory might work. I selected what appeared to be a simple test. A series of some 14 independent studies about a very narrow range of the real world, so the data generated and the operations in their collection in each case were similar, The logos or title of these studies, “Residential Propinquity and Mate Selection.” summed up the theory involved quite nicely.
This is the way the studies operated: the researcher went down to his local marriage license bureau, selected a time frame for cases included, copied the home addresses given by each pair on their marriage license, and then, using a map and a uniform measure of distance, measured their separation. Then, aggregating the information, counting the number of couples at each distance, closer together to farther apart, finishing with a distribution.
Uniformly, propinquity, that is closeness, was found to govern. More selectors were living nearer their eventual mates than farther away. At each step outward the number of licensed couples diminished.
This is tail wagging the dog research. You find a cheap source of data and after you work it up you worry about what your research question might be. It is honorable work but truncated, conceptually out of context.
Pattern is where you find it. A design is implied. Our senses discern a predictability, a repetitiousness, a clustering. In sociology when something is random, gives no information except its own state of entropy we say it has no pattern.
Pattern is what we seek through we may not be certain how it will become manifest. It hovers around the immediate moment of behavior or a sequence of moments or a mix of sequences. Sic transit gloria mundi: here then gone like a struck match in the night. We look for the residue, the mark, the index.
Patterns can be directly and intentionally made. The marching band for example forms up in a rectangular shape. The members all face the same direction. They play the same tune and they march to the same beat, stepping off together. The pattern is obvious.
In other situations there are no conscious forms. On direct observation we see a random mishmash. We have to process the information sometimes without a clue. We pummel it like a lump of dough, throw it into a pan and wait an hour and then we may delight in the shape of the loaf.
The field for love in space might have had this mystery in the initial collection of data. The lovers were in line to sign for a license. There was no other shared objective or plan. Getting the license was the only pattern.
The propinquity effect is hidden and not at all obvious in the official records. There are several steps involved: Raw data lines on the map connecting the home addresses of selectors. These, when mapped, have a random jumbled look like the short cords of fiber mash that are laid down to form paper. Summarizing by placing one partner in a pair at an origin and drawing a distance and direction line to the other, we have a pinwheel effect. Disregarding direction we have the number of couples at each distance apart. And this can be translated into the simple two-dimensional chart that is more or less replicated in study after study.
This finding was slightly disconcerting at the time because assortive mating was assumed where the mating decision is made on the basis of love so location of residence within the same community is not considered to be a factor. The distance separating should be of a uniform randomness. In a large enough sample the proportion of couples at each distance would be, it could be argued, about the same. After all, as the saying goes, love knows no bounds. A contradiction, an initial expectation of randomness denied by the actual result, a social pattern in physical space.
We will develop this topic in phases like the peeling of an onion so you may see that though each step is in itself simple the whole expresses a complex effect.
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The conceptual frame used to explain the found pattern is speculative even though based on the theorizing of the researchers who carried out the studies. Summarizing we argued that the propinquity effect could be explained by a few simple notions. I will give a revised description here based on the central paradigm of the unit act. The decision to marry or to live together in a procreating family setting is associated, within western society, with mutually exclusive feelings of affection and erotic anticipation called love. But this state of euphoria tends to be directed at people of selected characteristics defined within the cultural order. Intuitively participants have a preferred age range, the man a few years older than the woman, a preferred sharing of religious affiliation and ethnic identity. There usually is an avoidance of great disparities of education and wealth and style of life. These informal rules operate unevenly and only as probabilities and over time can change quite considerably. Remember the idea of the people slipping out from under the cultural imperatives. At the time of these studies there was a stronger same-ethnic-religion presence in effect.
At the same time informal cultural rules also affected the ethnic-religious character of neighborhoods. There was some significant probability that residential clustering would have an ethnic-religious affinity, a tendency to congregate Again these patterns were mainly informal and certainly were not imposed blindly and universally, but they were there in operation.
So to the extent that the two cultural rules worked, the approved mate choice would be within one’s neighborhood.
From the social ecological side, distance operated independently. The unself-conscious cost of meeting when two potential selectors live in different neighborhoods, cities, states, or countries would be quite considerable. And the ordinary probability of an encounter would be very low, almost non-existent in some cases. Consider he in Los Angeles and she in Salt Lake City, even with ethnic-religious and age and other cultural traits auspicious they would need a great romantic leap to find each other. This negative effect attenuates as the distance narrows and at some unidentified point it shifts in favor of propinquity.
So the finding of the high probability association of mate selection, in the USA, with near residence would be doubly expected with the influences of culture and social ecology both pushing the decisions in that direction.
Admittedly the theory is crude. The predictive concepts only lead to comparative statements like more or less while the actual distribution can be described mathematically. But even so the terms allow for variability. Estimates can be made concerning the degree of acceptance of the various normative systems by the populations involved. Estimates of the degree of ethnic congregation might also be possible. That is norm acceptance can be high to low, the congregation can also be high to low. The varying combinations would, we might expect, result in differences in the actually measured propinquity distribution.
Other predictions: for those who have escaped or transcended the cultural imperatives regarding mate choice, propinquity will be governed exclusively by the distance paradigm. For those who follow a cultural imperative re ethnicity but live in a non-ethnically conglomerated neighborhood the propinquity effect will be reduced.
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The charting of the information can itself be varied. Treated, for example, as exchanges among a city’s neighborhoods the data takes the form of a matrix that is an index of the sentimental structure of the community. It is possible to use these measures of propinquity to track the presumptive underlying and partially governing properties. Instead of explaining the propinquity distribution we can use it, now as a matrix, to characterize the city in which it occurs.
Think of all the world’s people alive at time now. Billions of us. Now ask what is the probability that each potential pair will meet? Setting aside the question of homosexuality and variability in marriage and kinship systems for the moment, what is the probability that each potential heterosexual pair will enter a courtship relationship and then become an established sexual partnership? I am not suggesting that someone set up an appropriate computer program and to generate the astronomically long printout. Only trying to indicate one of the larger scenes that have been excluded.
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Even more, we must admit that the research and what is presumed to have been measured might not match. The distance separating the selectors has been thought to reflect the actual process of mate selection that is of central and intense importance in all of our life histories. Movies, novels, and biographies endlessly go over the same ground, how did the lovers meet? It is a concrete and unique event repeated daily in social history yet almost always magical and mysterious. But in other ways of making the marriage decision, for example cases of mail-order courtship, of parental and kinship arrangement, of pairing with emphasis on economic exchange, and in dynastic negotiations, and in marriages of convenience to secure permanent residential status for immigrants. With these the initial meeting is hardly consequential. The first encounter can be put off until after the decision.
So the official license bureau data might hide more than it reveals. The failure to consider these other forms of courtship and marriage closes out the riches of social possibility and simplifies the results. The decision to marry, it turns out, has wildly different results in wildly different cultures, each with its own preferred social organization and each with its different spatial pattern. For each the propinquity question leads to a different result and may even be negated. Suppose, for example, the rule of ethnic endogamy is in force but the group members are dispersed rather than congregated. This is the case of dynastic marriages.
In the case of the mating system practiced by the Sultans of Turkey where the political leader both asserted his excessive power by demanding that the various tribal groups and ethnic communities supply him with women and girls for his harem. This also gave each sector of the society an active connection with the maximum leader, a kinship connection. The propinquity distribution of his mating activities would tend to be flat. Women living closer wouldn’t have any greater chance than those more distant. Again, the rules defining appropriate and preferred mating can change the visible patterns.
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The process of courtship and getting to know one another is another complication. It can vary from the formal and supervised or chaperoned style to the very casual. It contains sexual attraction and possible emotional and physical relationships of varying intensity. Looked at realistically this game of courtship can even involve people not usually considered eligible for marriage—those already ensconced in that blissful state. But even some of these cases lead to a marital decision.
We know that the road to marriage is not always certain. The problematic sequence and result of the courtship interaction, intersecting with the importance of the final decision, for some participants, establishes the drama of the process. Some large portion of those who enter a courtship sequence opt-out, make a decision not to continue, to discontinue dating. And many who do continue don’t register their live-in status with the State. Then some of those who come together later draw apart and then some of them re-enter the courtship system. The marriage license statistics hardly covers the complexity of what is going on. Anomalies in the data such as couples reporting the same address, couples using convenience addresses, and people changing address during courtship merely suggest the unconfined reality. Data also fails to include local people who register their marital decisions outside of their own city. Residential propinquity as described in marriage licenses is only a very crude index of meet, court, and decide narratives. It is a sorting and shaking out process, involving the matching of individual choices in the midst of a social field.
Another complication: setting aside alternate mating systems, people meet in a variety of settings: away at college, at high school, at work, on vacation, during religious rituals, on post office lines, during travel in public conveyances and so on. Propinquity after all is usually zero and only related to relative residential location indirectly. In fact, the place and mode of meeting, the progress of the courtship, the decision to mate or not and whether to continue or not, and even the decision to register the relationship using what kind of ritual if any are the open questions.
It is easy to critique the data as faulty, but even so the skew in the curve does point to very useful distinctions that may assist in the ordering of other social observations. Space and relative distance itself sets an environmental rigidity that has consequences for people’s behavior, thoughts and feelings. But this is an ecological event, as we have been suggesting, something that can impinge on behavior outside the awareness of the individual.
Man is always here and space has to be overcome to get to there. In science fiction and in fairy tales space can be penetrated by a wish, but in every day life you have to walk or devise another material medium of transportation.
Residential propinquity is a rough index of this process. If we could put our mate selectors in a uniform space, with no distortions and ungoverned by norms and congregation, with the population distributed uniformly throughout the communal space, the distribution of residential distances would still be skewed. Conceptually we define an ideal: uniform space, uniform distribution of selectors, with no preconditions except distance. The distributions of random choices would pattern, I would wildly guess, as something very similar to a diffusion curve as measured along one plane.
The couples involved in an actual study, treated as an otherwise assorted sample, could be fitted to this ideal curve. Then the actual distribution could be fitted. This could lead to a measure of the actual deviation, a measure of distortion from the presumed direct operation of distance on marital choice. The distortion from the ideal would reflect any lack of physical and spatial uniformity and would also reflect the operation of actual normative cultural systems. The way is then open to compare the mate selection outcome of one community against another. It is logically possible that this deviation could then be explained by the method of exhaustion advanced by Coleman. In other words through knowledge of actual cultural rules and actual distortions in spatial distributions and settings we can make estimates of the amount of distortion associated with each and so explain the difference of the actual data from the ideal. To be complete we would have to be aware of the variety of social organizations involved.
This form of thinking–establishing an ideal model from intuitions about how a particular social setting works–is the preferred modus operandi of economics. So watch out again for error since we know they never are all correct.
An additional observation. The projection of social activities onto the platform on which it takes place suggests that there is a pattern to the activity itself and therefore it might be possible to predict or describe, even if only as a probability, the distribution of these acts. The platform is good old Terra Firma and this type of statement is in the realm of geography whose subject is the give and take between the configuration and content on or near the earth’s surface and the human population in transit. That’s OK. That is one of our messages; it is geography and also sociology. It all contributes to the understanding of the social field. The chart of the distances separating residential address is a geographic map. This makes it clear that we are into a two-way question: The consequence of the topography for the social activities and vice versa. Similar kinds of geometric models are used in studies of traffic patterns, of the distribution of travel trips, of marketing patterns. City planning, police analysis of crime by place also come to mind. Military strategies are decisively swayed by geographical patterns and distortions. The possibility that the abstract models used might be usefully compared exists.
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Further problems of method: Just as the official marriage license information turns out to be a limited, truncated reflection of the complex, multifaceted actual practice of courting and mate selection the questions of what rules and definitions are accepted and governing and in operation and the description of the actual space and its peculiar topography is not easily accomplished As members of the society in which these marriage decisions take place we could intuit the cultural consensus governing but this would hardly be the proof required. Assigning a cultural value after the event is not acceptable. The overthrow of the use of instinct was based upon a similar ex post facto reasoning. You find an action and you posit an instinct that explains it, or with culture you posit a cultural trait. The independent discovery of the cultural belief is required. It is too easy to ascribe a rule ex post facto to an event without adequate proof. And topography itself might require a deep awareness of the specific place. The directions and modes of transportation and the costs, including rivers, forests without paths, types and massiveness of constructions, gated and restricted communities, the location of shops and meeting places, schools and universities. All of these may be influencing what the ensconced population does.
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This paper had some success. Residential propinquity and mate selection studies after it became more complex and theoretically focused. One paper that I know of attempted to test the operation of segregation but from my understanding didn’t appear to measure what we were predicting. In any case a curve named in our honor was held up as a type of sociological event before it was denigrated, I think wrongly, and destroyed. In any case there were a large number of citations in the literature over the following 10 or 15 years before they petered out.
The density of topics evoked by this admittedly naive way of framing social decisions is quite unexpected, and at the time, hardly noticed. Enumerating: (1) Questions of method–the inexactness of meaning in the several research actions and presumptions. (2) Questions of exclusion of possibly significant parts of the social field under study: the alternate cultures and ways of organizing, the need to show how the information fits into larger social process and ecological context. (3) The outline of the explanation of the found, however flawed, distributions closely resembles Parsons’ fundamental paradigm the framing ideas associated with culture, social ecology, and social organization all meeting around and within the unit act and the consequent interaction toward social decision and outcome, and finally (4) we have been lead to the fascinating world of space-time.
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For the sociologist’s human group space and time are blank pages in which we can scribble whatever we want.